“Mom,
smell this!”
My
9-year-old, Sadie, shoved a bright gold and maroon marigold right up under my
nose.
“It
smells just like summer!” she said, then danced off through the yard.
Summer
has its own smells, doesn’t it? The smell of honeysuckle vines takes me back to
my Great Aunt Stella’s house where I stayed when school was out. When it got
hot (which was pretty early in the morning in North Carolina), my cousins and I
would wade in the little creek that ran through the front yard. On the
honeysuckle-covered banks, we would try to catch minnows and make mud pies for
our pretend restaurant – which we (aptly) named “Gravy Country” because of all
the mud gravy we served over our rock biscuits. Later we’d pick hot grapes from
the vines in the backyard. The purplish-blue skins would burst open with
sweetness in my mouth – they even tasted like summer.
The
smell of hot asphalt reminds me of the “burning feet dance” I would do as I
walked barefoot across our driveway. I’d reward my tingling (singed) feet in the
cool grass by the pool. I remember the smell of my tanned skin, the chlorine
from the water and the towels fresh from the dryer.
The
smell of sawdust and motor oil transports me to the shady garage behind our
house where my daddy would work on cars during the summer – I’d bring him a glass
of cold sweet tea when it was really hot outside. I remember the smell of the
lemons, the sweat of the ice on the glass and the sweat on my hardworking daddy’s
white v-neck T-shirt.
The
smells of fresh sliced cucumbers, along with tomato biscuits, always take me
immediately to summertime – even when it’s the dead of winter.
I
wonder what smells are going to take my kids back to their childhoods? Back to…
well… now?
Marigolds?
Warm cobbler made from cherries from our tree? Blue raspberry popsicles from
the freezer in the garage? The sizzle-y smell of burnt out sparklers? The juicy
smell of a newly sliced watermelon? The earthy smell from helping in their
Grandma’s garden?
Or
maybe they’ll remember the smell of fresh-cut grass and the gasoline smell from
sitting on their dad’s lap on the mower. Or the acrid smell that lightning bugs
leave on their little hands when they let their captives soar to freedom. Or
maybe the smell of the fresh-from-the-field strawberries from the farm where we
pick every year. Or the fizzy-lemon-lime smell from the “spritzers” their
Grammie makes them when it’s hot outside.
Maybe
they’ll remember the tantalizing smell of their dad’s smoker as it teased us all day long with the delicious smell of
ribs or brisket until it was finally
dinnertime.
Right
now, my kids are outside in the warm sun, breathing in their own summer
memories. Breathe deep, my sweet babies. These memories are going to last you
for a lifetime.
So
breathe deep.
--from my 6-15-13 post for www.mentorpatch.com